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Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Wed Apr 10, 2024 1:35 pm
by The Outsider

Bottom post of the previous page:

emby wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 10:15 am
The Outsider wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 7:42 am Damn you're lucky. I'm still extricating this bitch from my house, she has two dogs I'm trying to not make homeless so I'm giving her a little time to figure shit out, so I still pretty much feel obligated to be around so she doesn't do anything crazy.
She in the spare bedroom or something?
Yeah. The benefits of having a 3 bedroom with no dependents. We actually get along relatively well, she's just got Bipolar that is only marginally treated and as such is a pathological liar and serial cheater who gaslit the fuck out of me for 4 years. So while it's not difficult being cordial it's kind of a weird situation where I don't know when she's gonna get manic and potentially do something really crazy, and I like my stuff, so I don't leave unless it's for work. I also coincidentally have 6 cameras set up in and around my house.

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Wed Apr 10, 2024 1:55 pm
by emby
The Outsider wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 1:35 pm
emby wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 10:15 am
The Outsider wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 7:42 am Damn you're lucky. I'm still extricating this bitch from my house, she has two dogs I'm trying to not make homeless so I'm giving her a little time to figure shit out, so I still pretty much feel obligated to be around so she doesn't do anything crazy.
She in the spare bedroom or something?
Yeah. The benefits of having a 3 bedroom with no dependents. We actually get along relatively well, she's just got Bipolar that is only marginally treated and as such is a pathological liar and serial cheater who gaslit the fuck out of me for 4 years. So while it's not difficult being cordial it's kind of a weird situation where I don't know when she's gonna get manic and potentially do something really crazy, and I like my stuff, so I don't leave unless it's for work. I also coincidentally have 6 cameras set up in and around my house.
You should move another chick into the third bedroom.

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Wed Apr 10, 2024 3:14 pm
by The Outsider
emby wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 1:55 pm
The Outsider wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 1:35 pm
emby wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 10:15 am

She in the spare bedroom or something?
Yeah. The benefits of having a 3 bedroom with no dependents. We actually get along relatively well, she's just got Bipolar that is only marginally treated and as such is a pathological liar and serial cheater who gaslit the fuck out of me for 4 years. So while it's not difficult being cordial it's kind of a weird situation where I don't know when she's gonna get manic and potentially do something really crazy, and I like my stuff, so I don't leave unless it's for work. I also coincidentally have 6 cameras set up in and around my house.
You should move another chick into the third bedroom.
The goal here is less drama, not more. Granted I spend 90% of my time at home in my office that is only accessible via a biometric lock.

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Wed Apr 10, 2024 7:47 pm
by nybf
emby wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 1:55 pm
The Outsider wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 1:35 pm
emby wrote: Wed Apr 10, 2024 10:15 am

She in the spare bedroom or something?
Yeah. The benefits of having a 3 bedroom with no dependents. We actually get along relatively well, she's just got Bipolar that is only marginally treated and as such is a pathological liar and serial cheater who gaslit the fuck out of me for 4 years. So while it's not difficult being cordial it's kind of a weird situation where I don't know when she's gonna get manic and potentially do something really crazy, and I like my stuff, so I don't leave unless it's for work. I also coincidentally have 6 cameras set up in and around my house.
You should move another chick into the third bedroom.
I agree. I think we've got you outvoted.

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Wed Apr 10, 2024 8:24 pm
by emby
Come and knock on our door.....

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Thu Apr 11, 2024 8:27 am
by The Outsider
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Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Fri Apr 12, 2024 8:04 am
by The Outsider
We had the talk last night. She's moving out June 3rd.

This is me right now:

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Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Fri Apr 12, 2024 11:30 am
by nybf
It's done? It's only April.

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Fri Apr 12, 2024 11:39 am
by The Outsider
nybf wrote: Fri Apr 12, 2024 11:30 am It's done? It's only April.
She and I actually get along pretty well as platonic friends, so I think without her trying to cling to the relationship she'll be less of a pain in the ass. She's not so much difficult to live with (though she could be at times) she's just a serial cheater and a pathological liar. So with me not being emotionally invested anymore I don't foresee having many issues over the next month and a half or so.

Edit: That first part is why finally breaking things off was difficult for me. She's going to be in a pretty rough situation financially when she moves out, she's going to be jobless with no money living in her parent's basement back in NH. I do still have a lot of love for this woman and honestly if we did't have the bad history between us she would easily be one of my best friends.

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Sat May 04, 2024 4:38 pm
by emby
1lb largemouth bass. First one in 20 years.

Also the first fish I've ever caught on artificial bait. Like ever.

Now I want a boat.

Re: Girl on the side

Posted: Mon May 06, 2024 10:04 am
by The Outsider
emby wrote: Sat May 04, 2024 4:38 pm 1lb largemouth bass. First one in 20 years.

Also the first fish I've ever caught on artificial bait. Like ever.

Now I want a boat.
Kick ass. I really, really want a flats boat. Like a 18 ft Boston Whaler or Carolina Skiff. I love bass fishing and I absolutely love flats fishing in salt water. Nothing beats catching trout, redfish, snook, and the occasional flounder all day.